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Between Cultures and Between World Views
 I think men who have a pierced ear are better prepared for marriage. They've experienced pain and bought jewelry.
-Rita Rudner
My advice to you is to get married. If you find a good wife, you'll be happy; if not, you'll become a philosopher.
-Socrates
Is it better for a woman to marry a man who loves her than a man she loves.
-Anonymous
Do not marry a man to reform him. That is what reform schools are for.
-Mae West
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, and always with the same person."
-Mignon McLaughlin |
SHORT QUESTIONNAIRE: CLICK HERE for the longer version of this questionnaire
IRank each of the following questions from 1-5
1 = very good, very high
2 = good, high
3 = average
4 = poor
5 = very poor
- How willing is each of you to give up significant portions of your own culture in order to favor the other person?
Your ranking of this: __
- How much time and effort have you invested in learning the other person’s culture and viewpoints?
Your ranking of this: __
- How much change has your future spouse made to your culture?
Your ranking of this: __
- How much do you agree on your roles in your future marriage and family?
Your ranking of this: __
- How much do you agree on how to raise your children?
Your ranking of this: __
Total points of your ranking: __
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5-10 means you have a good possibility for success in marriage |
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11-15 means you have some work to do and a good marriage may be possible |
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16-20 means you have some work to do and you should not rush into marriage |
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21+ means you should not be planning on marriage at this time |
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